baby!

We're pregnant!

Exciting stuff happening over in our neck of the woods. In the last 2 years, Chris and I have had our first date, gotten engaged, gotten married, gone to Greece, and now we're expecting! 

It's easy to get distracted during this time of our lives with all of the fun and exciting things going on, but I find myself saying, "Hey, you're really fortunate right now; incredibly blessed with beautiful moments in your life. This is rare--enjoy them and never take this time for granted."

We hit our 17-week mark tomorrow (which means our baby turns into a new fruit, if you use the What To Expect app), and during these last 17 weeks I've realized many things, which I've decided to jot down:

1. Getting pregnant is incredibly difficult for many, many people. Be sensitive to that. If you happen to have an easy time getting pregnant, thank the Lord everyday for this blessing and remember that it may not always be that easy.

2. Morning sickness is a deceitful term. Allllllll daaaaaaaaaay. Luckily, this too shall pass. 

3. Your body is going to change and you can't do a darn thing about it. I can't speak for everyone, but this was a little intimidating to deal with in the beginning. Simply remind yourself that your body has gone into auto-pilot and is doing things (pretty incredible things, if you ask me) that you cannot control. This is part of creating a life and carrying that life for 10 months. 

4. Enjoy every little thought, fear, question, and concern that runs through your mind during pregnancy. This time of your life doesn't last long, and let's be honest, no one really knows what they're doing. 

5. Order dessert. The baby wants it ;)

6. Whether you're feeling sick, want to scream, hate your wardrobe, or experiencing a not-so-ladylike side effect, share that with your husband. They don't get to feel what we're feeling and experience the changes that we experience over these several months. Sharing how you feel gives them insight and allows them to feel more connected to the little one inside you. 

7. Invest in a bra that fits. I repeat: Invest in a bra that fits. Those things are growing with no end in sight. (Can I get an Amen from the men?)

8. Appreciate all the things your family and friends are doing for you. Whether they are gifting you baby items, offering their advice, or simply sending you a text asking how you're feeling--this is an obvious display of their love for you, and now the love for your baby. It's pretty remarkable.

9. Thank your husband. Mood swings are no joke and strike when you least expect them. Is he still looking at you lovingly? Of course. Now thank him. Again. 

10. Lastly, you will need help. I am not naive. I fully realize that I have no clue what I'm doing and will have my mother and mother-in-law on speed dial. Embrace their wisdom and incredible knowledge. They've done this a time or three. If you're reading this, that means you're alive, which means they were successful. Trust them. 

Countdown to July is on.....